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Exactly! I can't count how many times I've read, "We the people must organize to fight [whatever]!" I don't agree. I'm not anxious to add my name to the membership roster of this or that group. Doing so inevitably is a path to conflict: "Oh no! I joined group A, but now it's taking position X on issue Y, which I think is idiotic." Now I'm drawn to spend my energy fighting for not-X within the group, which is probably a waste of energy. Look at the Libertarian party, for example: how much time is focused on in-fighting vs. actual outreach?

The best any of us can do, I think, is

. Get one's own head straight. Pretty much everyone reaches adulthood a psychological mess, in my observation. To fail to work through one's demons is guaranteed to lead to a life misfocused in ways large and small, and by extension to a world filled with conflict.

. Lead by example. The things that result in peace, prosperity, and contentment can be picked up by others when they see a real, live person practicing those things.

. By all means communicate when you think others are pushing in the wrong direction. But do so while keeping in mind that others are also human, also striving for a better world. Always hold the door open for them to gain a better understanding.

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